just another breaks up story

My story is just another typical breaks up story. literally. we met. we felt in love. we got together. everything went wrong. i caught her cheating. the guy was her best friends. we broke up. that's it. end of the story.

but the details are a bit different. because i chose to believe that what we had was something special. i'm gonna tell you the process that went trough to our break up. so that every one can learn something or anything from our story. so that everyone could try at lease too be understanding and forgiving when it comes to dealing with others people's heart.

ok. i first met her in 2012. we met in a trip to Indonesia. at that time she was very cute, delicate and polite. a dream girl.  we barely talk to each other in that trip to jakarta and bandung. we just sometimes smile at each other when we across face to face.

but, the story begins at the last of the trip. went we drop her at her home, i help her picks up her luggage and then out of nowhere she ask for my phone number. i just give her willingly. we became friends for the next 6 month. best friends. 

then, she told me that she love me. she really does. i also know that is the fact because of the obvious hint she gave. at that time, i wasn't ready and unsure of my felling because of a few personal reason. and because shes younger then me, i reply i only love her as a sister (later i learn that shes hurt badly because of this) 

a few month after that, i lost contact with her. i felt lose and my life kinda empty. then, i search for her. i ask for her to accept me. i ask for her hands in marriage. and a few days after that, she says yes. so, we sort of like fiance now. right?

our love life when trough a couple of years. much and much romantic stories we experienced. it was like a fairy tale. then everything change. shes does not treat me like she used to. she will always says shes busy. she will always online without massaging me. her last seen was very doubtful. she will always have weird we chat moments.

But, when i tested her, she will always pass the test. at this point, sometimes i regret i ever tested her. because she will always hurt with my test. its always makes her cry. but that doesn't change her attitude. she just keep doing it later.

at some point, i told her that i wanna breaks up.  i said that i have someone else but actually i didn't. shes keep crying and crying and begging for me not to let her go. and then i said, if she wants me that badly, just treat me like she wants me. not ignoring me for weeks.

but, shes never learn. she just keep doing it. but this time with a reason. and she turn off her last seen on whats apps. so that i can never know when shes online. she forgets, that only the words last seen was hidden but when you are online, you are online! it didn't hide that. so, i just stare at her online for a couple of hours. and it is very doubtful for someone whose claiming she was busy.

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Ownership related with Al-quran.

Ownership

بِسمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحمٰنِ الرَّحيمِ

يَسـَٔلونَكَ عَنِ الأَنفالِ ۖ قُلِ الأَنفالُ لِلَّهِ وَالرَّسولِ ۖ فَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ وَأَصلِحوا ذاتَ بَينِكُم ۖ وَأَطيعُوا اللَّهَ وَرَسولَهُ إِن كُنتُم مُؤمِنينَ﴿١﴾

[1]They ask thee concerning (things taken as) spoils of war. Say: "(such) spoils are at the disposal of Allah and the Messenger. So fear Allah, and keep straight the relations between yourselves: Obey Allah and His Messenger, if ye do believe."

                                                                                                                                  Al-Anfal:1

Meaning : The division of spoil,according to the provision of Allah and his Messenger

Asbab Al-nuzul

Related by Abu Daud, An-Nasa-Ibnu Hibban, and Al-Hakim,who came from Ibn ‘Abbas that the Prophet. said: "Whoever kills (enemy), he will receive a certain part, and whoever is charming enemies, he will get a certain part anyway. At that time the parents live guard flag, being the young forward to jihad invade enemy terrain and transporting ghanimah. Parents said to the youth: "Make us your ally, because we also helped to survive and keep the back of you." It is they complain to the Prophet .. Then this verse came down (al-Anfaal: 1) which confirms that it ghanimah an ordinance of God, and not the subject of contention.

The integration of  the Naqli and Aqli

 Ownership is its freedom. Ownership is its humanity, because animals do not have, but that people have. Justice is to provide opportunities for people to work and have. When a person has a privilege because of intelligence, determination, perseverance and patience, it is entitled to a reward commensurate with the effort. The Islamic allow individual ownership. It allows a person to become very rich and abundant wealth, as long as they get a legitimate effort, charity to the right, does not involve illegal things, not wasting, not stingy with the truth, do not wronged someone and do not eat other people's rights as required by the principle istikhlaf (trusteeship) of Islam. Islam also encourages individuals to own property to protect his possession and pass it on to the next issue. This is to give a strong sense that each individual effort and hard and can feel the power and ability every time enjoy the fruit of ownership. Recognition of Islam against individual ownership is beneficial to the people and the economy.

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[1] http://www.islam101.com/quran/yusufAli/